Relationship Matters~

At this very moment am watching the footie match between my fav, Liverpool FC and the not-so-glamour Manchester City.. I don't know what to expect from this match.. Statistically, Liverpool can easily win the match but anything is possible.. Liverpool has not been in a good form this lately.. They didn't win, the match that they should have win..

Its mid-way of the first half of the match.. The match wasn't as exiting as i've expected.. There is no Gerrard.. There is no Alonso.. The whole midfield player of Liverpool is not adventurous enough.. This is not a good sign for Liverpool..

Get bored with the rhythm of the game so i did some blog-hopping.. As usual i blog-hopped to my fav blogs.. The bla, The blabla, The blablabla and bla.. Hahahaha.. :)

Visited this one blog, owns by a blog-friend of mine, Zoul and something grabbed my attention.. In the recent posting about friendship.. Its a quote from another blog actually..

It says: "People try so hard to create sparks in a certain relationship and eventually fail.. I saw people try and try to make a friendship that won't work. Whether it's because the other is not interested or their personalities are just too different,"

I've things to be shared here.. First of all, I'd love to say that this may not only apply in friendship life but in any relationship as a whole..

My argument is that, it is so very true that no matter how hard we try to make a relationship work, eventually it might fail.. As a partner, when we are in a relationship, we will try our best to make things work.. We will try to do things that we are not used to.. We try to adjust ourselves to the not-so-great-situation of being together.. We just don't bother to give up, coz we expected things going better each day..

In short, we are very determined to do anything just to protect the relationship.. But again will this be worthwhile? If it is, so you're lucky.. But if it is meant to fail, then it failed you.. Giving up so many things yet gaining nothing in the end.. So not worthied.. Sounds so crazy? No!! That's life dear..

But again, on the other hand, if we didn't try our best to make the relationship work, how can we know that there is actually no hope for the potential relationship? I strongly believe that, at least one party needs to show their true intention to make the relationship works..

Trust me.. Believe in me.. No relationship will going to work well, if either party is just sit back, relax and enjoying the moment alone.. Share the great-worst-moment together.. Do things together.. In the end, that's the main reason for living together.. Don't you think so?

Tell you what, that is not the very end of my argument.. The writer was suggesting that perhaps the reason for the relationship being failed was either because the other is not interested or their personalities are just too different..

I need not have to justify the the first reason for being failed.. It is so damn true.. When a party is not interested in making the relationship works from the first place, then why bother to work so hard? Its only worth to try if you are in the situation of clueless yellow... Not in the situation of being absolute green or red..

But for the second reason of being failed.. No!! No!! No!! That's one of the lame-est thing that i've ever heard/read.. Sorry for not being polite.. But hey, am just sharing my thoughts here.. I respects your suggestion though..

Truly speaking, the reason to disagree is that, in real life that is not always the situation.. Having very similar personalities is not good.. Well, at first it might be a positive thing in a relationship, the both of you can share so many things together be it from food, drinks, sports, movies and so on.. Thousand thanks to the similar personalities that you've got.. That's could easily make the bond strong.. But, this is not going to happen in a long run..

In the long run, when you have a very similar personalities, it might make your partner boring.. There is nothing much to explore.. No surprises in life can be expected.. There is no colour in the relationship.. It is simply dull.. Huhuhu.. Break-up, is the end product of such relationship..

On the other hand, if their personalities are different, then the two parties can get to know each other better, in-and-out.. Expecting so many things, but the outcomes are so different.. It is something fun.. Small fight here-and-there just to come up with a solution like where to have the dinner together or what movie to be watched.. Funny..

Then being so different enable us to widen our horizon as well.. Great-good thing about in a relationship is that it gives a positive vibe.. It makes you wanting to try new things.. If he love football, then you'll start to love football as well.. Reason? It happens because that is one of the thing that u do and share together..

Owh.. I've said enough and guess what its almost the end of the game.. A tie for Liverpool and Manchester City.. What a boring performance..

I've been in the situation before and i survive.. Till then, seeya..