Hide or Tell?

Urm, ntah mengapa i rasa semcm terpanggil untuk membincangkan perkara di atas.. Well, lets discuss it informally.. Yatah wa.. I dont expect people to write or comment on the above mentioned topic plg but yeah.. But if u guys have something worth to be shared here, why not..

So bebalik semula pada topik di atas, kekadang timbul jua persoalan di kepala ani kn.. Mana yg lebih baik bnarnya, to hide things or to tell the truth.. I dont want to put any restriction on the extend to which it happens..

There is thin boundary between the both.. Pada dasarnya memang senang untuk membezakan sama ada its good to hide or tell things.. Most of the time, it is depending on the effect of such action.. Here i would also like to highlight that "every action has a reaction"..

Relationship 1:


U've been happily together as a couple for like months.. What would happen if u accidentally met ur ex that u'r still in love with? Then u started to see ur ex again and again.. So would u hide it from ur partner? or u'll tell ur partner the truth?

Hide or tell?

Relationship 2:


U as a smoker, went out with ur other sibling.. Ur sibling is a smoker too but ur parents didnt know about it.. What would u do, if ur sibling accidentally burn the car seat fabric/seat? Would u hide the it from ur parents? or u'll tell ur parents the truth?

Hide or tell?

Relationship 3:

U have this group of friends.. U love all of them very much.. U simply cant live without them.. What would u do, if its happen that u dislike his/her attitude? Would u tell hide it from that friend? or u'll tell ur friend about ur true feelings?

Hide or tell?

Owh enuf.. I think its more than enuf now.. All the situations above seem to be easy to be solved.. I know.. But when u think a little bit deeper.. It might not be that easy.. That is the reason why we need to know the effect of such action..

My verdict:

Say for the 1st relationship, kmu cuba utk hide it from ur partner.. I dont think u'll be happy jua with ur ex atu.. Kompom everytime u spend with ur ex atu, u tpkir kn ur partner.. Well, inda sweet tu ah.. Bkn ingat ur partner kerna syg kn ia, p ingat ia coz u takut kdapatan.. Sampai bila th kn ditapuki tu relationship ah? So whats happen to ur relationship with ur partner atu?

But to some extend jua, kmu tpkir if kn gtau hal banar to ur partner yg u start to see ur ex balik.. Kompom jua mcm-mcm dpkirknnya tu.. Ur partner may presumed that u and ur ex start to see each other balik.. See each other as-in dating smula.. Tho pkara atu inda blaku, but ur partner mungkin slh angap jua msih.. It happens to both guys and ladies.. Nada terkecuali ni.. Apa th lgi, if the partner jenis yg penyemburu..

As for the 2nd relationship, i know the example wasnt really convincing enuf.. Adakah kerusi krita tbakar.. But hey, it can happen u know.. Or it happened.. *ketawa japs*.. Yatah bah.. In this situation, if kn ditapuki dri ur parent, well dpt plg ksian jua kn ur sibling.. I know.. When it comes to our siblings ani, kekadang tani rela wa bkorban utk our siblings.. Rsanya mcm-mcm wa kn dibuat asalkn dpt menutupi kesalahan or kesilapan our siblings atu.. Ksian jua wa, if our siblisng kna mare.. Inda ja?

But sampai bila pkara ani kn ditapuki? Hello, they are ur parents.. No matter how much u try to hide things, lambat-laun tau jua durg tu.. Ganya kn halnya sama ada, durg mau kmu tau yg durg tau udah or nda sja.. Thats the reason why kekadang durg byk tanya atu.. Ingat pepatah lama: "setinggi mana tupai melompat, akhirnya ke tanah jua".. Its worse, if ur parents knew it and start to blame u on ur siblings faults.. Cana th tu?

Relationship number 3 is about friendship.. if kmu rasa ada ceciri ur friend atu u inda suka wa, would u tell the truth? Kekadang payah plg ni.. Kn gtau salah, inda gtau pun salah jua.. If dpt kwn yg inda mudah mkn ati bisai.. But payah wa..

In a nut shell *ingat ku kn RJ*, there is no clear cut kn hide or tell things ani.. It depends on the nature and the effects jua.. Skali lgi i would like to highlight here, "every action has a reaction"..