Good for Good, Bad for Bad..

Oh my.. How should i start this posting.. Well yeah, as for the title of this posting says "the good for the good, and the bad for the bad".. This statement is very true.. Here i would like to explore the statement in term of a relationship..

Basically what it says here is that a good man is for a good woman and so do a good woman for a good man.. [bnar ni statment ah.. ani th bnarnya matlamat sebuah perkahwinan iaitu untuk berkongsi kehidupan.. sesuai dgn Kaf-Ha-Wau-Ya-Nun, kongsi hidup waktu yang nikmat.. tiada seorang pun yg waras pemikirannya akan memilih mereka yg kurg baik..]

I repeat here, a good woman for a good man and a good man for a good women.. If that is the equation so how then, can 'the bad' dream of getting 'the good' if 'the bad' makes no effort in being good?

So yes, to find the ideal person, 'the bad' needs to put in great effort to be 'the ideal' person too.. Try to makes some changes if life.. Try to be a better new person.. But drastic changes wont works.. [bini-bini, if bsigup atu.. try to branti bsigup.. its not nice to liat bini-bini bsigup.. plus bsigup ani dilarang jua udh.. mbazir sja wa.. inda ramai lelaki suka the gf bsigup.. klau th the bf inda kisah, how abt the parents? so jgn takut utk membuat perubahan diri, asalkn perubahan atu ke arah yg lbih baik..]

How then, if 'the bad' changes to a better new person but still 'the good' dont want to be together?

First thing first, recap back the reason for u to change.. U do it just to win 'the good' heart or its due to the fact that u know its the best thing to do? So let it be the way it be.. Remember that:

If that particular someone (the good) is meant for u, then even if u'r at the other end of the world, he'll/she'll find his/her way there..

Furthermore, love is so and very fragile that itsnt forceable.. If 'the good' cant even accept u so again let it be.. Remember that:

If u love someone, u should let him/her go.. If he's/she's ur true love, he'll/she'll come back to u..


[jgn berubah semata-mata atas harapan untuk memenangi hatinya.. sesungguhnya ia tak akan berkesan.. cuba th pkir if it isnt work, krg trasa menyasal brubah atu.. so brubah demi diri sendiri.. jgn ada rasa tepaksa..]

Cinta bukanlah apabila sentiasa bersama.. Cinta tak seharusnya memiliki~